Josiah is 13. You would think by this age, he would be very adept at feeding himself. However, until recently, he really wasn’t. Unless we sat right next to Josiah and held onto his plate or bowl, typically it went flying. We learned early on it was important to never leave Josiah’s side during meals. Suction cup bottoms on bowls or plates were a joke. Josiah peeled those up effortlessly.
At one point, I put heavy duty Velcro on the bottom of his plate to secure it to the table. That worked for a short while. But this kid is smart. He figured out if he pulled long enough and hard enough he could rip that plate right up off the table and throw it across the room.
Needless to say there were many, many times over the years in which we had to clean up food off the floor, off the walls, off the furniture, off the drapes and off the ceiling even. Many, many times we had Josiah clean up his food mess, which really was us hand-over-hand helping Josiah (who was most often vehemently opposed to cleaning it up), clean it up.
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